my story

Back to the previous incident, where i saw an accident involve with a lorry with a motor  :

i was the 1st person who get over to de motor cyclist, who is lying on the road side after being hitted by the lorry….his face, between mouth n nose is broken and bleeding, he was fainted dat time. From his finger, i suspect he was over shock with the incident that happen and he was cramp.

Slowly, there r more n more ppl coming towards the motor cyclist…some of them are dialing to the hospital….some of them are discussing how the accident happen ( stupid!!!! not helping but stand there n discuss whose fault ), some of them try to help in traffic so that the ambulance can be reach faster. The lorry driver and 2 of the foreign worker dat with him were jus stand aside, they are in confuse, wat they need to do…..

this is most interesting part:  i try my best to calm down the ppl around the motor cyclist so dat not to move him any more, and wait for the ambulance to come….slowly every1 were follow and keep on dial to the emergency number and hospital to urge them try to come faster….the motor cyclist started awake!!!!!   He react with me by moving his eye….but from my observation, he is stil not sure wat is happening….me n 1 of my fren, nagadaven, try to ask him to calm down, not to stand up and jus wait for the ambulance, but he refuse until both of us hold him and not to let him stand up. guess because too pain, he got no energy to against with us…after awhile, he try to move his body from side to side again… suddenly, i realise sumthing unusual on his left leg! his pants is broken and i can c sumthing is white colour is on his leg…. when he turn his body from side to side, i can saw dat his left leg was swinging….gosh!!!!he left leg bone might be come out from the joint part of his knee!!!

i search from his pocket to try to get sum info to inform his family, too bad…inside his wallet got only driving license, no IC as well. from far away, i saw an indian guy, on his waist was hanging a walkie-talkie…from his out look, he look like a tow-man…. he come to the motor cyclist, where me n nagadevan keep on try to hold him on the road, then yelling at all of us, ” where is the lorry driver??? where is his lorry’s key?? take it!! dun let him run away!!!”  after awhile, he yell at us again, ” all of you stupid is it??? why let him lying there, and wait for ambulance, y not send him to clinic….why only stand there and c he is sufering!!!???!!!”   then every1 is changing, asking each other where is ur car, whose car is nearer…. me n naga looking at each other, dunno wat to do now…..

i thought of wan to tell the indian guy dat from wat i learn, v shouldnt move the motor cyclist cos v dunno his internal injury…v dunno whether there are any broken bone on his chest or not, if got, mayb he will in more critical condition cos moved by us. But in the end, i didn tel him dat, he seem like very “experience” with this kind of situation…ordering every1 of us who at there to lift the cyclist up…i stand to aside….i dun dare to touch him, i scare wat is in my mind will happen on him!!!

then they send the cyclist to the clinic…..the end……..

i consult with a doc bout dis kind of situation, at the end, i become more “mao dun” now!!!!

this is wat the doc tell me:

” wat u did n in ur mind is correct, but sumtimes, v cannot control the ppl around us, cos mayb v’ll face sum dangerous situation if v against with them (mayb wat she mean is this kind of ppl will beat us if v didnt follow their instruction). i meet with this kind of situation several time, but i choose not to stop my car and help although im a doc, cos sumtimes, when ppl know dat u r doc, they will have a higher expectation on u, but everything might b seem wrong! sumtimes, mayb by the time u wan to help, but is alre too late….”

wat u guys will think bout dis statement??? for me, if on the view of a doc, is right….he/she might be facing a dangerous situation if he/she cant save the victim….every1 will blame him/her….

if on the view of the victim, is not fair for him, his/her injury might become more serious if couldnt get a hand from a doc or other ppl…..

the las question, is that the FIRST AID COURSE dat organise nowadays, really can help ppl in facing this kind of situation?? for those who had attend this kind of course, are u sure u r ready to help those victim when face this kind of situation?? before i meet, i always tel myself, no worries, must have self-confidence with myself, im sure i can help him! but on dat day, a lot of things seems went wrong, and u r not only need to help the victim, yet u need to control the ppl around there…is a tough task!!!!!!!

To be continue….

is about 7 months i din update my blog alre…=)

Class finish early today, make me sitting alone here and surfing net, but doing nothing, except checking facebook, mail box, and frendster…..=(

yesterday was 4th Interclub Taekwondo Championship. I send to student, Kang wen and Ezzul for Poomsae event….suprisely, kang wen won a silver medal.=) it is a great start for my student who gain little bit of experience in the national level championship. but at a same time, quite disappointed cos ezzul didn get any medal, and in my opinion, they deserve to get 1st and 2nd places if compare with others!!! sigh…….

back to dis few months, there were a lot of things happen in my life:……………….

few weeks ago, i saw an accident happen right in front of me…… the accident is between a motorbike with a lorry from Syabas…till now, the moment where the cyclist been knock by the lorry and fly away bout 1 meter, his broken mouth and leg, the moment he wan to stand up but he didnt realise dat his leg is broken, still very clear in my mind!!!!  dunno how to describe the feeling on dat day, i almost meet with accident for 3 times, when im on the way to slim river to teaching class and on the way to batu 5 for black belt class…..

i’ve start taking a medication from a doc from UPM….the whole project is for 10 weeks….. till today, is alre 4th week. so far so good….not sure is the medication effect or jus because i’ve change the way of my mind thinking with life….now, im not so stress with those minor things anymore….the sad memory dat happen at the past oso is slowly let go…..or i should say, time is the best medicine!!

this year’s mooncake festival will be the most unforgetable!!! 1 of my cousin brother was past away. he is jus 40++….the las time i meet him is during my eldest bro’s wedding dinner… the las words i talk with him is ” do u enjoy the meal….”   now no more chance to c him jus only think in my heart…he left his wife with 3 kids….on the whole week of the funeral, his sons and daughter is very cool down, but all the relatives, including me, cannot accept wat is happening…..the most silliest thing is, sum of them blame him why not go for operation and cause this ending…..but in my mind, im sure he had his reason…he is not like s irresponsible s they say… from this, it make me realise, life is short, life is no U-turn, u must do wat u can n wat u wan, say wat u wan to say, appreciate all the moment with ur family n ur love 1!!!! u will never know wat will be happen at the next second!!!!

All the things dat happen lately really change me a lot: i must do wat ever i can in the shortest time, put the rumours to aside, but focus on wat u wan….when ppl spread rumour bout u, that means ppl care u, but jus in other way, friendship is important, but when related with the benefit or future, sum of them might choose the benefit and their own future rather than the friendship, be calm down every moment, dun simply take an action on certain things, or else, u will regret for ur whole life in taking such action…..

To be Continue….